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The Resource Where you end and I begin : a memoir, Leah McLaren

Where you end and I begin : a memoir, Leah McLaren

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"A daughter's riveting, devastating portrait of her relationship with her mother, a brilliant and charismatic woman haunted by childhood sexual trauma. When an eight-year-old Leah McLaren's parents get divorced, her mother, Cessie, flees her conventional life as a suburban housewife in search of a glamorous journalism career. In the chaotic years that follow, with her daughter in tow, Cessie lurches from one apartment, job and toxic romance to the next. Their bond is loving but also marked by casual indifference. Cessie's self-described parenting style of "benign neglect" is a hilarious party joke and Leah's stark reality. Their family motto, "Commitment sucks the life right out of you" is tacked up on every rental fridge. Inside the shelves are empty. During Leah's first year of high school she becomes gripped with anxiety following a troubling early sexual experience at a party. Cessie, in turn, makes a disclosure that will alter everything: from the age of twelve to fifteen, she was in a clandestine relationship with her middle-aged, married riding instructor. The damage inflicted by the "Horseman," Cessie explains, is the reason for all her ill-conceived life choices, including marriage, divorce and even motherhood itself. Both women will spend decades haunted by the specter of the Horseman, until they decide to investigate what became of him--an ill-conceived quest that will test the bonds of love and redefine their relationship forever. Written with searing candour and merciless wit, Where You End and I Begin is an intimate exploration of the ways intergenerational trauma is shared between women, and how acts of harm can be confused with acts of love."--
Language
eng
Work
Publication
Edition
First edition.
Extent
240 pages
Isbn
9780063037182
Instance
Label
Where you end and I begin : a memoir
Title
Where you end and I begin
Title remainder
a memoir
Statement of responsibility
Leah McLaren
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Author
Subject
Genre
Language
eng
Summary
"A daughter's riveting, devastating portrait of her relationship with her mother, a brilliant and charismatic woman haunted by childhood sexual trauma. When an eight-year-old Leah McLaren's parents get divorced, her mother, Cessie, flees her conventional life as a suburban housewife in search of a glamorous journalism career. In the chaotic years that follow, with her daughter in tow, Cessie lurches from one apartment, job and toxic romance to the next. Their bond is loving but also marked by casual indifference. Cessie's self-described parenting style of "benign neglect" is a hilarious party joke and Leah's stark reality. Their family motto, "Commitment sucks the life right out of you" is tacked up on every rental fridge. Inside the shelves are empty. During Leah's first year of high school she becomes gripped with anxiety following a troubling early sexual experience at a party. Cessie, in turn, makes a disclosure that will alter everything: from the age of twelve to fifteen, she was in a clandestine relationship with her middle-aged, married riding instructor. The damage inflicted by the "Horseman," Cessie explains, is the reason for all her ill-conceived life choices, including marriage, divorce and even motherhood itself. Both women will spend decades haunted by the specter of the Horseman, until they decide to investigate what became of him--an ill-conceived quest that will test the bonds of love and redefine their relationship forever. Written with searing candour and merciless wit, Where You End and I Begin is an intimate exploration of the ways intergenerational trauma is shared between women, and how acts of harm can be confused with acts of love."--
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McLaren, Leah
Dewey number
  • 818/.603
  • B
Index
no index present
LC call number
PS8625.L37
LC item number
Z46 2022
Literary form
non fiction
http://library.link/vocab/subjectName
  • McLaren, Leah
  • McLaren, Leah
  • McLaren, Leah
  • Women authors, Canadian
  • Authors, Canadian
  • Women journalists
  • Journalists
  • Mothers and daughters
  • Mothers and daughters
  • Children of divorced parents
  • Adult children of divorced parents
  • Children of divorced parents
Target audience
adult
Label
Where you end and I begin : a memoir, Leah McLaren
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Publication
Copyright
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volume
Carrier category code
  • nc
Carrier MARC source
rdacarrier
Content category
text
Content type code
  • txt
Content type MARC source
rdacontent
Control code
on1281243250
Dimensions
24 cm
Edition
First edition.
Extent
240 pages
Isbn
9780063037182
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia
Media type code
  • n
System control number
(OCoLC)1281243250
Label
Where you end and I begin : a memoir, Leah McLaren
Publication
Copyright
Carrier category
volume
Carrier category code
  • nc
Carrier MARC source
rdacarrier
Content category
text
Content type code
  • txt
Content type MARC source
rdacontent
Control code
on1281243250
Dimensions
24 cm
Edition
First edition.
Extent
240 pages
Isbn
9780063037182
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia
Media type code
  • n
System control number
(OCoLC)1281243250

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